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Malu Untuk Meluahkan Perasan Cinta

Malu Untuk Meluahkan Perasan Cinta

Pasti ramai lelaki yang terlepas gadis yang diminati dek kerana perasaan malu untuk meluahkan perasaan. Lebih kecewa apabila gadis yang kita jatuh hati itu akhirnya disambar orang lain.

Lagi menambah kedukaan apabila kita dapat tahu yang wanita itu sebenarnya memang jatuh hati juga kepada kita tetapi kerana si lelaki tidak meluahkan perasaan hatinya lalu si wanita memilih orang lain untuk dijadikan pasangan hidup.

Mungkin akan jadi seperti dalam cerita dibawah :

10th grade

As I sat there in English class, I stared at the girl next to me. She was my so called “best friend”. I stared at her long, silky hair, and wished she was mine. But she didn’t notice me like that, and I knew it. After class, she walked up to me and asked me for the notes she had missed the day before and handed them to her. She said “thanks” and gave me a kiss on the cheek. I wanted to tell her, I want her to know that I don’t want to be just friends, I love her but I’m just too shy, and I don’t know why.

11th grade
The phone rang. On the other end, it was her. She was in tears, mumbling on and on about how her love had broke her heart. She asked me to come over because she didn’t want to be alone, so I did. As I sat next to her on the sofa, I stared at her soft eyes, wishing she was mine. After 2 hours, one Drew Barrymore movie, and three bags of chips, she decided to go to sleep. She looked at me, said “thanks” and gave me a kiss on the cheek. I want to tell her, I want her to know that I don’t want to be just friends, I love her but I’m just too shy, and I don’t know why.

Senior year
The day before prom she walked to my locker. My date is sick” she said; he’s not going to go well, I didn’t have a date, and in 7th grade, we made a promise that if neither of us had dates, we would go together just as “best friends”. So we did. Prom night, after everything was over, I was standing at her front door step. I stared at her as she smiled at me and stared at me with her crystal eyes. I want her to be mine, but she isn’t think of me like that, and I know it. Then she said “I had the best time, thanks!” and gave me a kiss on the cheek. I want to tell her, I want her to know that I don’t want to be just friends, I love her but I’m just too shy, and I don’t know why.

Graduation Day
A day passed, then a week, then a month. Before I could blink, it was graduation day. I watched as her perfect body floated like an angel up on stage to get her diploma. I wanted her to be mine, but she didn’t notice me like that, and I knew it. Before everyone went home, she came to me in her smock and hat, and cried as I hugged her. Then she lifted her head from my shoulder and said, “you’re my best friend, thanks” and gave me a kiss on the cheek. I want to tell her, I want her to know that I don’t want to be just friends, I love her but I’m just too shy, and I don’t know why.

A Few Years Later
Now I sit in the pews of the church. That girl is getting married now. I watched her say “I do” and drive off to her new life, married to another man. I wanted her to be mine, but she didn’t see me like that, and I knew it. But before she drove away, she came to me and said “you came!”. She said “thanks” and kissed me on the cheek. I want to tell her, I want her to know that I don’t want to be just friends, I love her but I’m just too shy, and I don’t know why.

Funeral
Years passed, I looked down at the coffin of a girl who used to be my “best friend”. At the service, they read a diary entry she had wrote in her high school years. This is what it read: I stare at him wishing he was mine, but he doesn’t notice me like that, and I know it. I want to tell him, I want him to know that I don’t want to be just friends, I love him but I’m just too shy, and I don’t know why. I wish he would tell me he loved me! `I wish I did too…`.  I thought to my self, and I cried.

Antara sebab kita  malu untuk meluahkan perasaan :

  • Terasa diri tidak cukup hensem/cun
  • Memang tak pernah ada pengalaman nak luahkan perasaan
  • Takut tidak boleh terima kenyataan jika kena tolak
  • Takut selepas si dia tahu kita ada hati kepadanya, dia menjauhkan diri . Nak berkawan pon dah tak best lepas tu
  • *Ada lagi ke nak tambah????*

Si wanita biasanya jarang untuk meluahkan perasaan cinta kepada lelaki takut nanti akan dikata perigi mencari timba.

10 comments

  1. aq dh lame suke kt seseorang ni.. tp camne ye nk luahkan perasaan kt dye ye sy malu sbb sye ni tkut dye xbleh terima knyataan tau tp ada jgak yg suke kt sye tapi sye x nk sbb sume x encem tp sye brsyukur sbb mama sye stuju nk nikahkan sye dgn dye rupa2nye dye tu kwn mama sye la x sangkalah sye amat gembira…skrg ni sye dh berumahtannga dgn dye…alhamdullilah :)

  2. sy dh lma ske kt sorng boy nie…dh hmpir 4 thn lbh.dia mmng good-looking n popular..sy x prnh g tau dia sbb sy mlu..sy bkan nye lwa sngt pun..tp ada jgak lh dia curi2 pndng kt sy (bkan nk prasan,tp mmng btul..) ptut ke sy g tao ek ?tkut dia tolak..

  3. lucyheartfilia

    sy ske dier tp..sy malu nk ckp.. Sy slalu phatikn dia..dia pun sme.. Tp dier tu popular..lg bijak dr sy..n aktif sukan. Dah 6 thun sy ske dia..Tp kitorang jrg sangat2 borak.klu borak pun spatah 2 je.. Rmai llki nk jd bf sy..tp sy tolak.sy ske dia. X lme lg kitorang dh nk graduate..

  4. aku suka sgt2 kt sorang boy ni..tp ak xtw cena nk wt….ak xtw la dy sdar ke x yg ak tiap2 ari pndang dy…<3

  5. aloo , tak kan tak de cara untuk hilang kan perasaan malu tu ?
    hope you can help me . pleasee . :(

  6. dah pon luahkan, n kne reject,,,huhu

  7. takut nak luahkan kat org diminati..
    sbb dah ada boypren…
    hahahha…

  8. ada ke cara nk hilangkan rasa malu??

    boleh share?

    hahaha :)

    • Aidie Zuha Haron

      x mslh nyer kalau seorang lelaki tu suruh berjumpa rase malu dan mcm mne nk buang kan rase mlu itu klau nk bg tau blh share

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